Just the tip: it all comes down to asking better questions.
For example, non-millionaires ask: “Why me?”
Whereas, millionaires ask: “What’s the lesson?”
The first… makes you a victim.
The second… a victor.
Dunno about you, but I’d rather eat shower drain hair than be a victim. So I tend to smack a smile on and look for lessons when things go wrong.
(They always do.)